Pay Attention !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to what I'm saying!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 "You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
Dale Carnegie

 

As a person with Alzheimer’s disease progresses they become very confused and hard to communicate with. Caregivers must remain calm and try to understand what they are trying to say. Many times it becomes impossible. So how do we communicate with a person that has Alzheimer’s?

There are several strategies you can use to improve communication with your loved one with Alzheimer's disease.

Gain attention. Gain the listener's attention before you begin talking. Approach the person from the front, identify yourself, and call him or her by name.

Maintain eye contact. Visual communication is very important. Facial expressions and body language add vital information to the communication.

Be attentive. Show that you are listening and trying to understand what is being said. Use a gentle and relaxed tone of voice, as well as friendly facial expressions.

Hands away. When talking, try to keep your hands away from your face. Also, avoid mumbling or talking with food in your mouth. If you smoke, don't talk with a cigarette between your lips.

Speak naturally. Speak distinctly, but don't shout. Speak at a normal rate, not too fast or too slow. Use pauses to give the person time to process what you're saying. Use short, simple, and familiar words.

Keep it simple. Give one-step directions. Ask only one question at a time. Identify people and things by name, avoiding pronouns.

Be positive. Instead of saying, "Don't do that," say, "Let's try this."

Rephrase rather than repeat. If the listener has difficulty understanding what you're saying, find a different way of saying it. If he or she didn't understand the words the first time, it is unlikely he or she will understand them a second time.

Adapt to your listener. Try to understand the words and gestures your loved one is using to communicate. Adapt to his or her way of communicating; don't force your loved one to try to understand your way of communicating.

Reduce background noise. Try to reduce background noise, such as from the TV or radio, when speaking. In addition to making it harder to hear, the TV or radio can compete with you for the listener's attention.

Be patient. Encourage the person to continue to express his or her thoughts, even if he or she is having difficulty. Be careful not to interrupt. Avoid criticizing, correcting, and arguing.

http://www.webmd.com/alzheimers/guide/improving-communication