Mom is driving me crazy……. What can I go for help???????????????

May you find.....

May you find serenity and tranquility in a world you may not always understand? May you not become too concerned with material matters, but instead place immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart.

Find time in each day to see beauty and love in the world around you. Realize that what you feel you lack in one regard you may be more than compensated for in another. What you feel you lack in the present may become one of your strengths in the future.

May you see your future as one filled with promise and possibility. Learn to view everything as a worthwhile experience. May you find enough inner strength to determine your own worth by yourself, and not be dependent on another's judgment of your accomplishments?

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Alzheimer’s disease places stress on a caregiver and their family. Where can a person go to get help? If you know of someone that is experiencing these symptoms. Get assistance in finding some help. The Alzheimer's association is a great place to start to get help with meals, meds, doctor’s appointments etc.

Factors to determine if an alternative living is appropriate as you consider the decision, keep in mind some factors that can help you determine if placement is appropriate. If any or all of the following conditions are present, this can be a strong indication that alternative living would be in the best interest of all concerned.

The person with dementia:

■Has become increasingly withdrawn and isolated

■Has been experiencing steadily deteriorating health.

■Is experiencing weight loss due to swallowing problems related to the progression of the disease; is choking or aspirating.

■Is unable to feed, bathe, and/or dress self.

■Is prone to falls.

■Requires assistance with ambulating.

■Has become bedridden.

The caregiver:

■Is unable to socialize or take time for themselves.

■Is physically unable to lift or transfer the person with dementia.

■Has difficulty sleeping and getting enough rest.

■Must neglect other familial roles and friendships.

■Is feeling stressed and exhausted, hopeless or helpless.

■Is using alcohol or medications to cope.

■Has frequent bouts of crying.

http://www.alz.org/